Positive Thinking Tips

How To Use Positive Thinking To Achieve Your Desires

  • Aug 15

    Unfortunately, normal people view life through dark glasses and, as a result, everything appears gloomier than it is. This is the norm because the normal mind is hard-wired to look at reality through our conditioning and it is more likely than not that the mind will pay attention to negative rather than positive conditioning. This mental shortcoming is what is keeping your life on hold.

  • Jul 12
    A major cause of failure in life or in any undertaking is negative
    thinking. And a major reason for all achievements in life or in any
    undertaking is positive thinking. Your thought is a catalyst to your
    success or failure.
    For an average person who have not achieved much in life, take a
    solitary relaxation to become aware of the thoughts that come and go in
    your mind in an average day. You will discover that the major percentage of
    those thoughts are negative. If you’re able to go through the mind of most
    successful people you’ll discover that most of the time their thoughts are
    positive and progressive.
    The main negative thoughts are fear, envy, jealousy, self pity, inferiority
    complex, anger etc.
    Fear  is a feeling of insecurity against an impending danger or injury.
    It could be real or imagined, and there is a feeling that the physical or
    psycological well being will be affected nagatively. Fear creates a
    situation of insecurity emotionally. And there follows a tendency to try to
    avoid the danger or insecurity.
    Envy is a negative emotion of a discontent feelings from the success or
    fortune achieved by another person. This comes about mostly when we don’t
    have the same level of success.
    Jelousy is a situation of bad emotion out of losing a partner or position
    to another person. It exhibits a feeling of insecurity, loss of self esteem
    and self control.
    Self-pity is a feeling of regret for oneself out of a perceived misfortune
    or failure to achieve something. This feeling could also come out of an
    infliction done to you and over which you do not have any power of control.
    Inferiority Complex is the act of low self esteem and feeling of been
    unworthy and uncapable of achieving what some others have achieved. It is a
    situation of lack of self confidence and lack of efforts to make move to
    achieve tangible success.
    Anger is a situation of over reaction to an issue or occurrence or someone.
    It is a display of high displeasure or annoyance prompted by our perception
    of a situation without enough caution.
    These negative thoughts are the major causes of our unhappiness, and they
    poison our mind and our relationships with our environment. They in turn
    produce negative reactions and feelings towards life. The effect is that
    they hinder our manifestations and progress. Hence, they bring problems
    and set back for us.
    The solution to these problems is to start a new life and try to avoid all
    these negative thoughts and replace them with positive thinkings. It is
    useless trying to explain to yourself or some people why you took any of
    these negative actions. It’s just like trying to justify a wrong action
    with a wrong explanation.
    Negative emotions produce negative results.
    Positive thinkings produce positive emotions like happiness, joy, love,
    peace, hope and enthusiasm to overcome the daily challenges of life. You
    will have the necessary energy and relationship to move forward in life.
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  • Jun 18
    Your attitude determines what you become in life. What you are today
    is the result of your past attitude and what you will become in the
    near future will be determined by the attitude you adopt today. This
    simply means that you are the architect of your own fortunes. If you are
    a person of positive thinking or attitude to life you will be able to
    make it through life with ease and success, while the opposite will
    happen if one is a person of negative attitude.
    Although we are being influenced everyday and everytime by happenings
    around us, our fortune is being determined only by ourselves and not by
    any other person. The major factors that influence our fortune either
    posively or negagtively lie within each of us. This is why we have
    little or no excuse for our failures in life.
    Each of us should know that with our attitude we could create a life of
    success and achievements for ourselves. The tendency is that because we
    are surrounded by all sorts of negative influences, we tend to think
    negatively. What we need is to turn this influences around in our mind
    and see things positively. In any bad situation there is always a seed
    of positive or success chances. What we need is to identify this seed
    and work on it to turn a negative situation to a positive one.
    The fault with majority of the people is that we fail to identify the
    positive seed in our negative situations. If we are able to do this
    there would be a change of fortune to the positive side, for us.
    Our mind is a flexible thing, and that”s why our thinkings move very
    fast. And that’s also why it has many ways of trapping us with negative
    thinking such as pains, anger and hatred. What we need is inner
    strength to push these negative thoughts away from our mind, so as to
    remain positive. Most people make mistakes by giving themselves a time
    limit when they are pursuing a goal, and when they don’t succeed within
    the time limit they quit. This is wrong. What we require is to focus our
    mind. With a deep mind of focus and positive mindset each day will bring
    us closer to our success.
  • Dec 17
    The single fact that determines the possibility of realising your
    desires is your mindset, which otherwise is known as your thinkings
    and beliefs. Your thinkings and beliefs could either be positive or
    negative.
    If you have positive thinking your mindset would be positive  and if
    you have nagative thinking your mindset would be negative. It is what
    influences your inner and outer dispositions and therefore plays
    important part in your manifestations.
    Although you might have dreams. But dreams are just wishes and they
    are the beginning of your awareness of your desires. Your desires to
    achieve anything must be supported and boosted by your mindsets.
    Every human being who had achieved greatness began their jouney to
    greatness with a dream and a positive mindset towards the dream. It is
    the burning desire to achieve the dreams in addition to positive
    thinking towards the dreams that propelled them to achieving the goals.
    If you have an intense positive thinking and determination towards
    any desire you are bound to achieve it easily and in record time.
    Although it is common to experience some kind of adversity before achieving
    a goal, and this is why some people do give up on their goals at the verge
    of achieving such goals. The only thing such people required was renewed
    determination and positive  mindset to carry it to a logical conclusion.
    Another important impediment to quick success is other people’s reaction
    and and its effects, as they may affect you negatively. It’s possible that
    people percieve  your goals or dreams as unachievable. They may even
    consider you as an average people who’s not likely to achieve big feats.
    Do not allow this perception to give you negative thinking about yourself.
    Other peoples’ reactions and perceptions had created and contributed
    a great deal of obstacles to lofty desires and their achievements.
    Do not share from this negativity. Don’t allow anybody to determine your
    life for you.
    Therefore go out and achieve all your desires – that’s
    what God created you to do.
    I have come across people who were in their early years blighted and
    prevented from achieving much as a result of the negative thinkings imparted
    on them. Some were told that their intelligence was below average and
    would not achieve much. This mean that their success in life would
    be minimal. This produced a profound effect on their lifes for a long time,
    until they decided to face and overcome the devel of negative thinking.
    And they replaced it with postive thinking.
    You must believe in yourself and have the desires and positive thinkings
    that your goals will be achieved, no matter the bigness of such goals.
    Abu Aremu is a motivator and Positive Thinking coach. He writes on many
    topics including Positive Attitude and how you could attain your desires
    and live your life to the best.You can get more free life changing articles
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    The single factor that determines the possibility of realising your

  • Mar 22

    Take the following steps in managing your Positive Thinking.

    1. Stop criticising youself, and stop thinking over and over things
    you did wrong or things you regret you did. You could easily do
    this by holding your thoughts for 5 – 10 minutes.

    2. Stop apologising for yourself, and instead say some kind words
    about someone else. Do this by saying nice things about someone
    who has done good things to you or to another person.

    3. Get yourself daily affirmations that have direct bearing with
    your desires and goals.

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